Add him on Facebook again or no?

reconciliation
1

Hi everyone
when i fought with my ex i unfriend him, and now i miss him so much on my facebook
I don’t know if its a idea to add him again or now
I have not contacted him in 11 days
I miss him terribly.

2

keep doing no contact and go from there. work on yourself and keep yourself busy. good luck

3

I would not suggest adding him back. Wait until after you’ve had some back and forth conversation with him (well after your 30 days). Seeing his facebook updates will not ease the pain of missing him. It will only stir up your emotions and may cause you to start analyzing and obsessing over every post.

4

I agree with everyone else … just wait untill you establish a contact with him again after 30 days … and keep NC … good luck :slight_smile:

5

Thanks @aamls and @cj03
@cj03 he is not so active on facebook but i miss having him on my facebook

6

Your friend request is conveying to your ex that you still need them. It shows a bit of neediness. As the program says, “You need to learn to enjoy your life without your ex. You need to prove to yourself that you can be happy without your ex.”

7

@cj03 I cant be happy without him
I miss him so much