So this is different and I will try to keep it short.
We started dating in January, she and her child moved in with me in Febuary as she relocating back here from another city and couldn’t afford a place on her own. So I bit the bullit and allowed them to move in, I had a really good feeling about this one. Keep in mind I am really used to all the private time I need since I don’t date to much. This will come into play later.
We lasted all the way up till mid August, overall it went well no arguments although there probably should have been as we are both passive aggressive.
She told me she had fallin in love with me back in June maybe early July. I have difficulty expressing my feelings so I told her I wasn’t quite there yet. I know from that point on our relationship was on a slight decline.
We did less stuff together and I found myself craving some alone time, because like I said earlier I had all of the time I needed and none now.
So the strange thing is I really bonded with her 2 year old boy, he is so precious and special it really became a big part of my life. This will be the hardest thing when we break up.
We break up in mid August, it was a more or less mutual decision but more mine since I said it first. Unfortunately this happens over text as she was out of town visiting family 900 miles away. We didn’t really discuss this afterwards and we really should have. Passive aggressive remember!!!
So I ask if I can still watch her boy when she works and what nots because we really bonded and she was glad I wanted to because I was his favorite person as she says and a good father for him, real dad not involved at all.
So I watch him most every weekend and it melted her heart when she dropped him off because he was so happy to be with me. So obviously no contact rule did not apply so nice we arranged for supervision times.
Now initially I was totally fine with the break up, I was preoccupied with fixing up my house and other various projects I had going on. I was glad I was still the primary male influence in her boys life and it seemed right. I was beginning to come around and was thinking about my ex and was about to see if we should rekindle the relationship. Basically that day I discovered she was seeing someone else. I was devastated after knowing this. Based off of what I see on Facebook she seems to really be into this guy… How she has time to date a guy between school and work and parenting is beyond me. They started dating less then 2 weeks after we broke up.
2 1/2 months later they are still dating. My babysitting time is dwindling as well.
So does she like me still at all I wonder or she putting all her eggs in one basket with this guy?
Anyone with any thoughts on this would be much appreciated.
Some info:
I am 35
She is almost 30 now
New guy is barely 25 and in the Air Force
I feel like starting a family now and would love to be a father for her child and even have one myself now.
My feelings for her grew stronger for her after the break up. She is all I think about now.
Do any of you think this rebound relationship has a chance?