I met this girl 2.5 yrs ago and we hit it off pretty well. Hung out all the time etc. we were sleeping together for most of that time. She wanted more as did I but I was happy where it was. I didn’t want or couldn’t make the commitment because of past relationships. I admit that was my fault. I always liked this girl from the get go she was in love with me.
So about 6 months ago she started talking to someone else without me knowing. In that time we slowly started hanging out as much. Other things as well my brother living with me, my dog being sick and passing. Etc. so after my dog passed it hit me pretty hard. I tried reaching out to her nothing? She had blocked me without my knowledge. Finally got ahold of her she was going on vacation with new guy. Told her how I felt about her that I loved her and wanted us to be the way it should have been day one.
She comes home leaves new guy and we spend almost 2 weeks together. The whole time saying she loves me and how happy she is. Did all kinds of things together that I might have passed on prior because of my dog being so sick and just being bummed. The whole time was awesome. I put in how I should have, then bam no contact again. Tells e how she csnt do this anymore. She shouldnt have to teach me to be a gokd bf. I didnt even wake up early to wish her a good first day teaching. Even though I helped her set up her classroom days before and spent hrs orinizing and what not. Week and a half goes by and she finally messages me.
Wants to meet. Go for a hike and she asks me about all the stuff she was unhappy about etc. seemed like things were going well. I said give me the chance to prove to you it won’t ever be like it was. She says I wanna see where it goes with him. Not I love him not I wanna be with him. I wanna see where it goes.
Now her friends and family love this guy for whatever reason. Most have not met me or only once and they are acting like I’m some low life pos person. No I will admit I have a house good job etc but new guy has lots of money like way more than I’ll ever have.
So after we met she texts me when she gets home and says I’m sorry I hurt you blah blah blah. I’m unblocking you off all social media etc you’ll always have a friend in me. If you need anything let me know. ? none of that makes sense at all to me. Since Sunday night I have not messaged her in anyway. But almost everyday she has texted me or sent me a message on Instagram privately. I’m like wtf is going on? Is she just confused? Dealing with the hatred from friends and family? If she wants to be with him why does she keep texting me? “Hope you are well!” “Keep up the good exercise always makes me feel better” etc. she isn’t following me so she is purposely looking at my profile. She is also posting lots of pics of herself. She posted a pic with a blanket I got her #favoriteblanket what!? Why why why!? Lol you can tell I’m totally at a loss. Why go from blocked completely and she won’t respond to me at all and now she unblocked me and messages me with me not responding to her
I really love this girl and I know we would be great together as a real couple.
What do I do!?
Thanks for any insight. This has been quite difficult for me.