Im sorry for my bad english
For the starter.
Me and my ex have been together for 10 years and have on of (maximum 6 month) *total brake up 2 years, but during this 2 years breake up we still keep in touch.
Me (25) and him (25) are so close. Until he went to another country to persuing his master degree. We have been LDR for 2.5 years.
Befor 2018-6 he so sweet to me until then he is so busy, have so much to do.
This last desember 12 2018 he went home to see me for 1 week. In this meeting i felt that this relationship is far away. He said that he want to fight for it. Until yesterday he told me that he was so tired dong this LDR meeting just one a years. He already finish his master just recently. So right now he is in now job (5 day). In 5 day ago he past so much thing. He move to another place, dont have enogh mone, satle in new job, have to get use to it for his way to office ( take 3 hours to home offic home )…
And i ask him about his feeling about me. He said that he have a little, its be less and less because he to busy and just far away from me.
When he ask to broke up. Im just following what he say dont confront him or begging or whta ever, im just said yes nicely. Im still love him so much.
I straight away doing NC. I dont know what to do. I still love him very much.
He is plan live for good in that country.
So me and him will always far away.
20th February is his birthday should i wait until his birthday? Does he still love me?
Nobody likes long distance, especially men. It’s almost impossible to maintain a relationship. He might care for you, but that doesn’t mean he wants to get back together for a relationship. Wait and send a short Happy Birthday. Even though it’s sad, I think you should move on.
Thank you for your advice. I will send him a short happy birthday. Dont you think i have a chance? Because i have so much history with him?i really dont know what to do. I will move on but not now… i still love him very much…
Thank you…you are right, i think that to if me and him get back together he should marry me or ask me to move in with him. But i dont think so… to think about that its so broke my heart into peaces.
Just little update…
Its been 6 days for NC.
I just currently post some story in instagram. He doesnt look at it.
Its make me wonder. Is he just mute my post…
You’re reading too much into this. Just cause he doesn’t check your instagram story doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you. If you’re going to just look for any reaction from him, you’ll only be disappointed at every time. Post stories cause you like what you’re doing, not so you can check to see if he’s going to react. You need to focus on improving your life and yourself cause nothing is going to happen standing still and waiting for him to come back.