[sunshinegirl]

Daniel –
Congratulations!! I am so happy for you!! If the conversation went well, I feel like it’s ok to ask about her exam. Just keep it light and don’t get personal, like you already did! 🙂 Or you can contact her later, I don’t think you need to wait as long as a week tho… 🙂 Good luck!!!

Dara –
Good luck with the meeting! You’re much better than her! Just stay cool 🙂

A.z –
I didn’t stay updated, but I hope you have fully recovered already 🙂
Also, could you recommend similar books with The Secret to me? I feel like watching that movie helps me so much! It makes me stay positive and confident in my studying, life, and love life as well.

Everyone –
I was studying these days since the schedule is so tight.. Hope everyone is doing really well and i miss all of you!!

[sunshinegirl]

Hi everyone 🙂

I was busy studying these days until August ends…

Just wanna to say: hang in there!!! 🙂

I know we all can do this!

[sunshinegirl]

Dear Ratedrkidd –

Here’s a link that may help 🙂

8 Signs That Mean Your Ex Wants You Back (Despite Being Scared)

[sunshinegirl]

Girly –

Try to think this way:
You two breaking up is a fact. If he broke it off and contacts you now, which is not a perfect timing because both of you may be not emotionally stable, is it something a responsible guy would do?

And just because he hasn’t contacted you doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to or he doesn’t miss you. It’s just not a great time. Trust me he misses you too.

A.z. –
What you said reminds me The Secret, have you read that book or watched that movie?

[sunshinegirl]

Dara –

Although I’m a girl, I feel you. I never played mind games, so I don’t really understand the girls playing with it.

To be honest, I admire very much that you are able to let go and move on. That’s very brave and awesome. You must be an amazing person.

I don’t know why but I feel a little sad when I saw you mention that you still need time to heal. Gosh it’s been long and you’ve moved on but you still need time to heal. How hard would it be for us who got “dumped”? 🙁

I always believe everything does get better tho – like everyone says here. I am really happy for you that you feel relieved and I wish you the very best.

🙂

[sunshinegirl]

Thanks everyone for input regarding my .. situation haha 🙂

Edward –
I am so happy for you! Best wishes!

[sunshinegirl]

Dara –

I agree with the text option. It’s more casual and cool. I believe you are in a great stage right now and she will notice that! 🙂

[sunshinegirl]

Daniel –

I love reading your words! Always clear and inspiring! It’s hard for me tho, because we’re in a long distance relationship. We started dating LD except I lived in his place for a month in the summer. With the distance, it’s too hard to attract a person.

Any ideas?

[sunshinegirl]

While you’re talking about meeting ones in gym/library, etc. I have another question here. I’ve always been confused a little bit about the dating culture here(i’m in the states now). It seems like here people go on dates first, and then go dating, and so on. In China, we don’t do like this. We started by dating – girlfriend and boyfriend – kind of serious.

My ex and I met through a friend (our only mutual friend) when he came to visit her. And then he started to message me every day, and after a month, we went to a game in another state together (I invited him) with my classmates, after which he told me he liked me and then we started dating and he asked to change his Facebook relationship status (fast?). More like a Chinese way here.

Anyway, I was wondering that, as mentioned in the checklist for NC, I’d better go on a date or several dates. But I don’t know where to meet guys or have guys ask me out? And maybe people don’t do that because they see me a Chinese student? Idk, my daily life is really simple – go to library, go shopping, go gyms, no bars or other stuff 🙂

[sunshinegirl]

Rihanna –
Thanks for the comment and yes i think it would be harder if i had sex with him 🙂

Daniel –
For some reason, i feel like it’s easier for a guy to get back with ex-girlfriend than a girl to get back with ex-boyfriend. I feel like guys can get a girl by chasing (from the experience that one of my ex managed to get back with me), so there’s actually something a guy can do nice to a girl. While a girl can only attract a guy – in this situation, who said breakup, so I feel like there’s nothing we girls can do about it. Sounds more risky.

[sunshinegirl]

Julia –

Why do you think so? And what do you mean by “do nothing”? Literally do nothing at all?

[sunshinegirl]

Nope i never had.. Although I have had long relationship like several years before… And all my ex are very respectful regarding this point.

I actually was thinking, at one moment, about doing it with him, but now he’s gone already 🙂 He’s the most strong and muscular guy I’ve ever dated 🙂

Not sure if you know this, but exercising/ work out is not that popular in China but my ex (American guy) goes to gym every day 🙂 Very attractive 🙂

[sunshinegirl]

Sorry guys I can’t help on this topic here.. I never had sex before…
Part of the reason is that I’m a little conservative? Please don’t judge me 😛

[sunshinegirl]

And hey everyone here,

According to the checklist for ending no contact:

-You followed the no contact rule for at least one month.
-You are no longer a mess as you were after the breakup.
-You have made a few positive changes in your life.
-You are absolutely sure that getting back with your ex is a good decision.
-You have gone on at least one date during no contact.
-You have accepted the breakup and you are OK with the fact that you may never get your ex back and this might never work for you.
-You have accepted the fact that even if you don’t get your ex back, you will be fine since there are endless opportunities in the world to find love and happiness.

I feel the first 4 is not hard to achieve while the last two.. Ugh I feel it’s so hard to accept the fact that it may never work for me! Any I’m doing OK only because I am keeping my hope there!

[sunshinegirl]

Daniel –
Hey don’t be sorry! That’s totally fine 🙂 Anyway no matter it comes to what I’ll probably relate it to my ex because I’m still recovering 🙂

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