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I’ve been there too! Hope you’ll like it a lot π
Maybe right now is not the perfect season, but hope you will enjoy!David!!!
I’m originally from China!!! What parts are you going to in China?
I’m currently in the states for school though…
Joe I am so proud of you!! You’ve made it this far!!
And other guys are truly genius for knowing this!!! I agree with a.z. that your ex misses you and will try everything to reach out to you. Hey the way she called you is crazy!!!
I just wanna to encourage you here – don’t ASSUME you’re weak! Shift your thoughts – tell yourself that “I’m strong!” “I choose to be composed!” “I am attractive!” Use positive thoughts to say goodbye to the negative ones.
Joe, you know that you’re not weak at all. I admire that you’ve made it this far. We all know that you’re strong and attractive. Keep it up, you’re doing really great!
I am so, so happy everyone is doing great!!! I am so proud of all of you!!!
I hope we can meet too! Would be very nice π
“A happy life is just a string of happy moments.
But most people don’t allow the happy moment, because they’re so busy trying to get a happy life.”Enjoy life guys! A lot of good vibes to each one of you π
September 28, 2014 at 9:14 am in reply to: TODAY IS 30 DAYS OF NC; 10 THINGS I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF #9101Good for you! I am so happy for you.
Wish you all the best!
What—- Dara are you leaving here?!
Aw you are such a great person! I would be sad if you left.. But I wish you all the best π
And I’m sure you’re super attractive!
Positive vibes here!
So I’ve come to the point that I still had feelings for my ex, but I am ok to live without him π Plus the “mutual” friend made a lot of things complicated, so I drove 6 hours (crazy huh?) to his place last night and now I’m back home π (Aw I am crazy!)
This is really a good choice. I got to see him, and realized that his reasons for break-up is real. And that he is really not ready for any kind of relationship. He’s been too stressed out and he still couldn’t sleep well. He really needs to be alone for a while. Best wished for him! I actually said goodbye with a smile on my face π
I can’t predict anything in the future, but I am ready to put all my attention on myself now – for MY OWN GOOD! My ex was pretty smart, he mentioned something like “I am really happy that you’re doing better, but you didn’t get the phase that you’re joyful ALL BY YOURSELF”.
And the things our mutual friend said, was all false. I knew it’s right to trust him π
I’m happy that both of us are working on our lives on a right track, although we’re not together. I am happy that I loved such a wonderful guy.
And I know that I’m worthy a lot of wonderful things, I just need to focus on myself first though. [For now I’ll put all my attention on getting a job]
Especially I wanted to give thanks to A.z. We’ve emailed recently, and every single time her words make me feel a lot better and more calm. She’s absolutely amazing and she’s quiet a wonderful person, also with pretty face π Thank you, thank you, thank you:)!
Also I want to thank Dara! I haven’t talked here a lot recently, but I did check up on you guys. And Dara, how positive you are and how confident you are now just make me believe that no matter what I’ve been through, I’ll be fine.
I am really thankful for this forum and the people here.
A.z.
Also, what do you think made him want to go back with you eventually?
Ok I’m feeling better now π
I just always want to convey positive vibes here rather than negative emotions πI just felt the way that he really moved on and wanted nothing to do with me anymore. All my friends told me just this only shows that he doesn’t even want to have even one connection with me. What am I supposed to do..?
I was thinking that I wanted closure that I just wanted to see him for the last time. Seeing how cold he is may help me to forget him completely. Because I’m the kind of girl who loves imagining a lot. As long as i don’t see him, I can’t believe he doesn’t love me anymore. Not knowing he doesn’t love me anymore just couldn’t let me let go.
But deep down I still want to be back with him..
Hey az. Can I have your email address? I don’t wanna vent too much negative thoughts here… but I feel like I wanna help…
Need help asap.
Our mutual friend asked me for coffee out of blue. It turned out she wanted to give me my stuff. Yes my ex sent my stuff to her!
I was acting really well all the way tho. Smile, positive..
But now I’m alone. I can’t stop crying. He even didn’t want to send them to me. He really did not love me anymore?
I can’t stop feeling like I want to see him to give myself a closure. I can’t stop myself from texting him. I didn’t do but I feel the impulse.
Please let me know what I’m supposed to do.
Hope everyone is doing well π
Just want to send some good/positive vibes!Best of luck <3
Also, Dara –
Thank you for giving me tips about how to ace exams after the breakup! I still remember your suggestions and they are so helpful!
Staying at one place every day could remind me about bad feelings from yesterday. And I did change places and find another one to study with me to keep me on track!
Thanks a lot!!!!
Dara –
I know! This will be “getting back” or “saying goodbye completely”! I’ll go when I’m ready to say goodbye to him – for good!!!Daniel –
Thank you for your input! I want to meet him in person is mainly because of our mutual friend, I’ll try to make it clear:Our mutual friend hanged out with MY friends together and shared a lot information. But she never mentioned this to me, actually she’s not talking to me anymore. She mentioned how my ex said it’s not possible to get back, and she even mentioned something like “Oh he’s going to visit China if I’m back to China during Christmas, but if I’m not going back, then he’s not either.” First of all, she must be aware that she was talking these to MY friends, then it’s totally possible that they would tell me, and she knew how hurtful those things are! She still said them. Secondly, that’s not the way my ex said things and I can promise it’s not 100% true. Actually, when we were still dating, she would say things that are not true about how my boyfriend thought of me. There will not be things between them though, because of some history about our mutual friend… But all my friends told me that our mutual friend is not genuine and not wanting us to get back together.
That’s why I want to talk to him in person, the relationship is between him and me, I don’t want others to play tricks here!
Saoirse –
I think your idea is great too! Go for it! Good luck! π
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