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That is how I feel too currently, there are many things that I don’t understand why my she did what she did. I show many many things with love and care and she decides to leave in a cold way.
I’m not telling you to forget the past, but cherish it and appreciate it. Use the past relationship to build on your inner self. That relationship is over, you are both an individual now. Don’t go back to who you were, move forward. You must love yourself before you can love others. Only you can change yourself, you’ll find that it doesn’t matter for whatever reasons she left you because when you work on yourself, you will find life again and slowly regain happiness. Everything you been through with her, just take it in as part of your life, it made you who you are. And now, you are improving more on that to show yourself that you can be happy without anyone else.
Hi Horckytr,
I know many people has told you it is better off to let her go. It’s hard to do that because you’ve been through so much. Try and understand the problem in the relationship and why she left in the first place. The best thing you can do is the improve yourself and your future. You’re right, you don’t deserve any of this coldness, you can only control yourself. There’s nothing wrong for you to love someone, but a relationship takes two people to love each other. I’m sure that if you two were together and you’re the only one loving her, you’ll feel tired someday. Use your love for someone who appreciates who you are, someone to grow together with and someone that you can build trust with. Right now, the pain will still be there because of the memories you two had before. I am going through a similar situation. Remind yourself that these memories made you who you are now, aim for a stronger, better person. Find the person you were before you met her, don’t do it for her, do it for yourself. I promise you will feel better one day.
Hi Rihanna!! Wow, you are still here, great to hear from you. How is your relationship now? It’s great to see that you’re happy. Everyone has ups and downs in life, just try to be happy when you feel unsatisfied. I still believe that if you are grateful for the things life has to offer, and you take the time to reflect, your problems wouldn’t be so bad after all. Stay strong everyone (:
Hey RAED, I think you have a choice to let it go or not. I hope that you’ll have happy memories in the future and forget the bad ones. Hope you’re doing good!
Oh and a.z, I hope you are feeling well and have fun on the date! (: You are a strong girl now hehe
Dara,
You deserve better, she was probably cheating on you before breakup but truth is, it doesn’t matter anymore. Knowing it can only hurt you more. I know you’ve been through a lot with her, but if you did get back with her, do you want her todo this again? No right, that’s why you deserve someone better. We all know that you will find an amazing girl physically and mentally attractive. We are all rooting for you Dara!Rihanna,
We should all be FB friends haha maybe we can all meet one day =PI enjoy reading your story and comments too Dara, it puts a smile in my face. It’s great that my old friends are strong hearted. Take some time and think through how much you guys have been through. I’m glad that you guys are grateful in your life. And Rihanna, that’s an interesting quote, thanks for sharing (: Stay strong and be happy everyone!
Khine and Rihanna,
I’m doing well, thank you. It feels like honeymoon stage again and this time around I have become a more understandable person. I’m back at her place and will probably stay here for another month or unril school starts in October. I hope that you guys are doing well.Dara,
I hope that the assumptions you’ve made are not hurting you like it did to me when I’ve made assumptions. The best way to do it is be nice and be yourself. Let her play her mind games, you’re just trying to be nice and wanted to meet her before she leaves. Mind games lead to unhealthy relationships anyways and it is not attractive. You’ve known her for so long and if she doesn’t even want to have a lunch or drink with you, then you know you deserve someone better. I believe that if you went up to a girl you like and asked her out, she’d most likely say yes! Keep up the good workout (: I can’t wait to join you.Lots of sex talk while I read the past conversations lol, hope everyone is doing well and are happy (:
Rihanna, he’s showing signs that he misses you, maybe you can ask him to hangout? (:
Honestly, you guys should know that you guys deserve better. Like a.z said, if being friends with your ex hurts you too much, you should unfriend them. Before I got back with my ex, I was ready to move on and just accept it. I couldn’t be just friends with her because of my feelings for her, love. I was thinking, maybe one day we could be friends, but I wanted my moment of life to be happy and you guys should be thinking the same. I was ready to move on and she suddenly started giving signs that she wanted to be with me, first missing me then planning to go places with me in the future. If I were to let her go, I wasn’t going to resist fighting with the moments we had together, but to cherish them. It was a wonderful experience and I’m lucky to still have another chance to be with her. Even if I wasn’t able to, I’m glad that the breakup has brought me this far. It has let me meet wonderful people like you guys and learned how to better myself. I would have never known without the breakup.
Hi everyone,
Just got back to sf from my gfs place, so much cooler here by like 30 degrees! I will be staying here for about 4 days with gf. Going to walk around, shop, and have yummy food.
Sunshine, good luck on exams! I hope you will do well and finish soon so you can find a job here. I miss the food fom China, they taste so good.
Rihanna, I hope you feel better and not have emotional roller coaster rides haha. Great hearing about you learning how to give a full body massage, I’d like one now (:
a.z I hope you get well soon! Don’t smoke too much, hopefully you’ll quit after you get well.
Dara, great to hear from you, I admire your workout. I haven’t been able to workout lately because there’s no gym around gfs place. When school starts I will definitely start again.
Steve, Raed and sinead and everyone else, hope you guys are doing well! Keep us updated, thanks everyone for sharing here!
She will miss you more and more and wonder where you have been and will be curious of how you changed. Her feelings and love wont disappear, it takes a long time to forget someone. Give her and yourself the space, there’s nothing else you can do at this point if you don’t want to come out as needy.
