ok thank you I will see what happens thank you for your help I hope she comes to her senses someday I I wonder if she is thinking about me just a hunch
I told her I was thinking about hurting myself never got a response do you think that was the wrong thing to say? because I still never heard from her
I don’t know what to do here please hell the friendship I had or not sure if I don’t have any more sent my brother a text on Wednesday telling him she thinks I am liyeing on every thing I tell her is a lie so she told him she is done with me and said I am sorry any ideas on what I can do do I do the nc and hope she has a change in heart thank you
I know NC s really hard, but its the only option you have, You need to work on yourself first before you have a chance at a healthy relationship. Have you though about professional help? Therapy sounds like a terrible thing to do sometimes, but t seriously helps so much! I recommend it! Right now, try not to think about getting back together, but as of right now it wont happen. Think about all the amazing things to do with your life.
Things that help me get through NC is movies, tv, reading, taking a walk, hanging out with fiends, calling family and friends. Calling other people has helped me the most… I just call my sistr and talk about everything and sh jut listens. If you dont have that, that’s why a therapist is helpful I think.
Maybe join some sort of club or activity on what you like. Volunteering is so much fun too1
I will be working at darien lake up here in Buffalo NY she is a Luke Bryan fan they may be coming at the end of September will that maybe bring her back if I can a ticket half price for her seeing I will be working there?
I have tried to text her and left her a message telling her I would pay for her ticket in at half price I will be working at the concerts at darien lake starting June 7th she won’t respond to anything she told my brother she was done because I didn’t give her time and space I told her about the concerts bad company and joe walsh are coming hoping that would bring her back around I have people praying for me I am beginning to wonder if she is putting my texts on ignore what else is there really left for me to do the nc rule except the worst but pray for the best I think I am trying to win her back so I don’t know what to do any help would be much appreciated I just hope she is not ignoring my texts I will never know I think I am trying to hard
She might have blocked you because she said she didnt want you to text her. You texted her anyways. Every time you do that you’re driving her farther away. At this point I dont see her coming back. So do NC and move on, who knows what he future holds.
I don’t want the friendship to end is there any hope I don’t want to lose her she had to get my message about the concerts on her machine I wonder if she listed to it
do you think she might be reading them and don’t know what to say or maybe just not responding to me do you think I will have to see if she contacts me by the first concert at led it alone
But she doesnt want to be friends right now. You have to see and understand that. The only way things MIGHT work out is if you do NC for at least a month, probably more.
And most important seek help and improve yourself. If you dont do that she"ll never talk to you again.
Sorry, but the truth is harsh.
seek help in what way I don’t understand it’s her not me?
I think shes not responding because he told you to give her space and you didn’t. Youre the one who broke her trust to begin with.
You told her you were going to harm yourself, I suggest going to someone to talk about those feelings, like I said before, try therapy.
I am seeking consulting but I told her I would make it up to her I promised her free concerts I did everything in gods creation to bring her I even beggined her to stay
Begging definitely isnt good. And she probably feels offened that you think she can be won back by presents.
Like I said, leave her alone if you want to fix things eventually. If you keep bugging her she might leave forever. But the choice is yours.
ok thanks I will take your advice and leave her alone than you sorry I didn’t mean to get your aggravated I know it will be hard I can see it know but I have a saying that goes expect the worst but pray for the best I guess hope is the only thing I have at this stage it’s in the Lord hands I hope he can hear me but than you will see
but the one thing I will say is people today can find it there hearts of heart’s to forgive but never forget it’s called compassion if people look they can find it unless they not looking hard enough people can change their mind if they want you don’t crusciry someone unless you don’t want to make it right everyone makes mistakes we don’t live in a perfect world I am sure we all make mistakes I know I have she has to but you move on again if can find it in you 2 wrongs don’t make a right and that is a fact
can anyone tell me if the above mentioned is true in any way shape or form thank you
can anyone tell me if the above makes sense if someone wants to find in there heart to forgive they can only if they want to
one last saying goodbye is never an easy thing which I don’t happen to anyone of us
I don’t know what to make of this heads or tails I am having dreams of her every night does mean anything just asking they are so so