I was wondering if there are any people around here that actually are back together with their ex after NC. Or what happened when you contacted him/her after all this time. 
Great question. I actually did this when I was 18. And it worked. So there’s hope haha. I watched the girl I was with leave and date an acquaintance and when I went back for her a few months she dumped his ass.
Now I’m against being blocked everywhere (different girl) and her ex of 5 years. Woof. I’m at 30 days NC so we’ll see where this winds up.
jaydilluh when no contact worked with your first ex how long did you do it for? did she contact you first? my ex is v.stubborn and he was the one who broke it off but I really want to initiate contact! Ive done 30 days and am freaking out about it now!
Um, just make sure you happy with yourself and you know in your gut you can keep it chill. It was a couple months. Everyone is different though. It depends on the situation. Why did you break up? Are you sure you want them back?
This girl came right back to me and I broke it off with her 6 months later. She was livid. Luckily, 7 years later we’re friends.