Any advice really appreciated! She used the term, “I just don’t know how I feel” I know that she wasn’t as in to me as I thought, and definitely not as in to me as I am her. I definitely love her. So I agreed to set her free and that I would not contact her at all, but she could contact me any time and I would be there. I am not expecting her to contact me. Is it still going to be ok to contact her at all and how should I contact after saying I wouldn’t? I will follow the no contact rule for at least a month…
You should do NC.don’t break it and stick to the plan.
Good luck
A.z is right. Stick to No Contact. Its very hard but if you love her and wish one day to be with her again, you will do it. No Contact for 30 days and then follow 5 step plan.
You wrote: “So I agreed to set her free and that I would not contact her at all, but she could contact me any time and I would be there.”
Keep your word and don’t contact her. Only time will tell what happens next. Good luck.