Me and exboyfriend had a really deep connection. We had been together for 1 year and were very close to our anniversary. I have to admit i was always jealous of his ex girlfriend because i would always mention how it bothers me that his bestfriend is still friends with his ex. Sometimes it annoyed him but he understood at the same time.
Me and my exboyfriend got together after his ex broke up with him 2 months ago. He was with her for 8 months. Before their relationship ended, she went away with her ex and then a few days later broke up with him so he was pretty devasted.
Now all of the sudden, he broke up with me one week ago telling me he had lost some feelings and that we were too different and when i asked him if he has missed someone he said he missed her ex a little bit but especially her family. He was also crying while breakup up with me because he still loved me i believe and felt sorry. After one week now, he is hanging out with his ex again. He was always very hotheaded and sometimes made decisions too fast so i thought he maybe will regret it sometime.
But was i just the rebound? Rebound relationships should only last 2 months max but we were 1 year together, longer than he was his ex…
Or is his ex now the rebound “for me” because he needs someone to deal with the loss? An argument who would deny that is that he followed his ex back on insta after one day… but maybe he just needed attention.
Please help!! Can i get him back?