Hello Kevin
I met this guy a couple of months ago online. We went on a date and we felt a strong attraction. We started texting each other all the time (he always initiated it), having really deep and meaningful conversation, as well as banter. We went on another date and it went even better (it was his birthday). He said that he felt very strongly about me, he even talked to his friends and family about me, while I was a bit more reserved. On our third date we went to his house and I stayed overnight. I didn’t feel good about it and I blanked him in the morning, leaving without any explanation and avoiding contacting him for two days. When I texted him again, he was really hurt and said that he was confused. I tried to explain myself (I freaked out at the speed of our intimacy), but I screwed up again the day after when he didn’t text me in the morning the way he used to, so I told him that i guessed it was over. He didn’t reply. I texted him a couple more times asking if he wanted to talk, but he ignored my messages.
I didn’t contact him for about 26 days. Then I sent him a “memory” text and he replied straight away. Three days later I sent him another one, and we chatted for a while. After that, I have texted him every two days or so, and he has always replied. He has even initiated texting a couple of times. But at some point he asked me what I was doing that night, and I said that I’d be in town and we could go for a coffee. He said he was away that night.
I felt a bit vulnerable after that and now I’m scared. I texted him about 3 days later and we talked for a bit, but I’m not sure he’s that much into me anymore and I’m scared of putting myself out there and being rejected. My gut feeling tells me I should wait for him to contact me now. What do you advice?
Thanks
Nadiraxy