today we met by surprise ..

Me and my friend went to my place… Then my ex came to pick my cousin and had to wait for him … i went out at the same moment with my friend in her car.he was parked right next to the door wherr i went in… His window down… I was in pretty good mood thats good. So when i came to the car looked at him with a smile and said hii in a nice tone.and he smile woth his usual skile on his face saying hi back. And then i sat in the car and when i left i looked at him…looking forward…and he semed confused and lost…I dont want and cant just ignore him in this situation. It feelt good to see him and be able to say just hi and get one back :))

can you tell me what you think of this situation please? i feel like he is confused of how happy and positive i looked, and in what hurry i was… also i had nice hair and make up, and was dressed good… i also think he is expecting a text, since he knows i cant resist not to write to him (which i proved wrong now for 2 weeks :slight_smile: hard but sucesfull weeks… idk what was going on in his mind when he saw me being totally okay… really he had a confused and lost look…

Wait – and see if you hear anything from him. Wait a month - then decide. Also now might be a good time to update your FB profile picture to one where you’re happy, smiling and having fun! Just my opinion. Don’t text him. Have faith!! If he wants to text you he will. If you tecr him, he’ll think he’s got you as a back up. You are not a back up!

:smiley: Sounds like you handled it really well! He probably was surprised, not expecting to see you, and that you looked nice and were happy too! Definitely don’t text, he will be thinking about you and wondering what you are up to.

Oh man idk if im gonna wait a month. Our mutual friends are in my faking wayyy. Making him forget about me he doesnt even like them too much but he is doing things me and him were doing… Idk they r annoying and stupid and cant see his unhappy face. Everyone we used to hang out with say he looks sad and unhappy and unsatisfied except those mutual friends who are trying to make him forget me.they even told me that. How cant they see he is miserable…he knows they r stupid and cant get the real picture…si thats why he is with them he can fake his well being. God im mad abd furious at them.sigh good for them they can use him for driving them around since he is single and broken and needs to fill up my part with smthn… Unacceptable for me. He was happy and sad seeing me… Thry cant make him laugh aand iknow he is annoyed.not lonf before he closes himself in his room as i know him

omg this topic: and the last post and the last sentence: true. it happened. 2 weeks ago. he clsed himself in his room. barely goes anywhere else than work…