Two years ago I posted about my boyfriend just up and dumping me. Patricia12 was such a gem in helping me stay calm and Kevin’s information, which I followed the way indicated such as no contact, playing cool during the reconnection, brought my ex back to me. After some time had passed I did ask what his real reason was for dumping me and it was EXACTLY what Kevin indicates…some men aren’t ready for that next step yet. They need to “play” around a little to make sure what they felt is real. Now, two years later he is the one doing all the planning, reaching out, sending good morning text, invited me over for dinner… the whole nine. This feeling is AMAZING but couldn’t have done it without all you guys help. Thank you!!
I’m happy you two got back together !!! It’s amazing feeling. Patricia has helped me before as well but it’s been a year or so now still communicating with her, but progress doesn’t seem to be made in my situation. I’m happy you both got back together and found each other i love the fact he came back and you were still waiting to embrace him when he did beautiful feeling reading what you wrote and makes me happy as well.
Thank you so much coolman! Don’t give up…give her time. My ex was hot and cold with me for a minute. I eventually let him go, focused on me and bettered myself. During the time I guess our no contact really help him see things differently. He had a new girlfriend and everything but I guess he realized the grass wasn’t so greener. So give her time, focus on you. She’ll come back…especially if it’s worth it.
I totally agree with you. I’ve just been focusing on my self and disabling things like watching her snapchat or even calling her anymore to check on her, because i was always making sure she was okay and good. She told me she doesn’t know what she wants, but misses me as a boyfriend and has been on dates with other guys and of course the rest that happens. But the last thing i have left is top stop saying good morning to her like still do since we break-up. And then i guess i’ll just wander of and leave and disconnect my self. But i feel truly happy when you wrote you post i’m so happy these guys on here were able to help you in your situation and even to give you the comfort sometimes we all need that when the time is needed for it. I’m glad you wrote this post and thanks a lot for the positive thoughts, and i hope more new and exciting things happen with you guys just so happy to hear it made me smile at work.