Soooo my no contact ends in 5 days, I havent spoken to my ex since we broke up (no pleading calls, texts e.t.c) and he hasn’t spoken to me. During this time Ive got a first on a dissertation, got job offers and got accepted onto a teaching course (all of which he has probably seen on Facebook as I put them up!) and have thought about it long and hard and realised that I really want to try and win him back 
Only problem is, he is extremely stubborn. He broke things off a month ago out of the blue because he thought we we’re too young to seriously commit to each other and that 3 years was getting too serious for him and he didnt want to be with the same person he was with now who he was going to marry (we’re only 21/22 so this seemed crazy! - i think it was a bit of a "the grass might be greener on the other side’ syndrome). We we’re great and he was really upset about it…but said he wasnt going to change his mind.
I’ve read all the suggestions, the no contact e.t.c, but will this really work on a stubborn ex boyf who seems so set in his decision? Im scared to contact and then be knocked down - I’ve made so much progress on myself after my confidence took such a hit from this and (although it sounds mean) I want him to realise what he’s lost in me