Hi,
I Met my Ex Last year in decemeber. she lives in St. Petersburg (russia) me in Germany. 3 Years ago, she got a Children with a russian man, But they stoped The relationship because they dont Love each other. In all The Years, They lived together in a flat als friends, because they want that The Children grow up with The father and The Mother. The guy also had a new relationship , everyrhing was cool for my Ex. So then i met my Ex, and we Fall in Love with each other, i met her many Times in St. Petersburg, Last Time this September. She Fall in Love with me, and wanted to meet me in Europe. After my Last Visit, her Ex boyfriend suddenly got jealous and told her she has to Decide between ne and him. The Problem : he is The father of The Child , he has all The Money ( she cant affort a Flat and The Costs for The Child ) and Most important , she doesnt want to divide The Child from The father. Also, this guy is obsessed from her… he just wants to own her. So we hold The contact Secret, But now she is in relationship with him because she has no other Choice. She told me, she has to Do ist for The Sake of The children. Also, he treat her, because he has power Over her. So The real Break up was 3 weeks ago. She still writes me that she loves me. Saturday, she called me, and i heard in her Voice that she still loves me. She told me she is on Christmas in Berlin and i think she wants to meet me there. In The Night, when she is drunken she often Write me:“why we did not havea a Chance to Be happy together:( i Love You, live is not fair , please forget me to get happy 
You Are my soulmate, You Are always Deep in my Heart”.
So The thing is, my Ex is in a relationship with a guy she doesnt Love (she told me once Child is growwn she Leaves him asap, she doesnt want to Be with this guy her whole live )
I Love her, she loves me, But we cant Be together. If You think “russian Woman” she never asked for Even one Cent of me, she Never Lied to me, was always honest. I told her to stay at The Flat with The guy for The Sake of The children, because its best for The Child. She is 22 Years old, she is not ready to Go for another Country and live there (Germany). Her Family doesnt want it, But still … we lovee us , damn it!!!