Context: We met 7 months ago during a training of 5 days, over the past 7 months we went out about every three weeks. At the end of these 7 months we started a relationship, but I was very stressed, both physically and mentally. I wasnt the funny spontaneous guy she used to like anymore, and I was physically detached. This “relationship” was destined to fail, after 2 weeks she pulled the plug, said it was not going to work. Now, 5 weeks later, Ive spent a lot of time with a doctor and therapist to cure my stress, anxieties and insecurities and I feel it is working, so does my doctor. Unfortunately the girl who should know I can be open and relaxed in a relationship doesnt know.
At the end of our short lived relationship I said he to tell me which trainings shed follow next, Id pick other ones then. Last weekend, she sent me a short text with the trainings she will soon follow. I replied that those are indeed interesting trainings and asked how she’s doing. So far, no reply.
What bugs me the most is that she is unaware of the changes I underwent. What should I do?