I need your advise on what to do. I and my ex had a serious quarrel last weekend and then we didn’t talk after that. I met her the following Monday to resolve the issue but she said it was over. I decided to move on and not contact her till I’ve healed properly(I had no idea of the no contact rule then). She called me on Thursday asking that we still remain friends and I was pushed to talk about our relationship once more and she asked that I give her time to heal because she was still hurt but we could still talk from time to time. I don’t know what to do. Should I start the no contact rule all over again and ignore her? I was doing pretty fine before she called and now I’m back to square one. We are also in the same faculty at school, which will also increase the probability of bumping into her. Do I just ignore her totally or just greet her very casually? Please advise.
@eazzydee - How long were you together and what went wrong to cause her to break up with you? Too much quarreling is a major factor in breakups. She wants to be friends, but she’s not ready for that and asked for time to heal so you need to honor her request. That means no texting or calling, but if you see her at work, be polite and say “Hi”. If she starts a conversation, respond accordingly, but don’t argue. Good luck…