rebound or no?

well thats why were all here to support each other! cause people from the outside have better persecutive a lot of times. as for you shelden i totally agree here… Tons of NC. she needs to understand what she’s lost.

Yeah I would have to agree

Why is it so hard to believe it’s a rebound…

idk but if you want her back you have to believe! I’m almost sure mine is and you should too! look man if she’s all over you then all of a sudden she goes for another guy it is almost surely a rebound… Girls feelings and guys for that matter too, they don’t go away that easily. You can put them on the back burner and have someone distract you from them, but at some point they have to surface… nothing can be hidden forever, especially human emotions!

Look at this:

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Both you and your ex are clearly still in stage 1. Hope this gives a better understanding.

ahh. im most certainly in stage 3 of that. Thing is i still think if she comeback one day i would reconcile. I have accepted i might never get her back and i don’t really have any pain from the breakup anymore. But mine is clearly still in stage 1-2. Oh well haha if i find someone in between too bad! once again creed coming up with the great articles :slight_smile:

My ex called me and said this will be the last time we talked

Good. She need space? She needs time for herself? Give it to her… Give her more then she need

update: so ex and i broke up around 9 weeks ago. (we came to conclusion it was a G.I.G.S breakup) she entered what i assumed to be a rebound relationship around 2-3 weeks after. Now I’m told that a week or 2 ago the guy she was dating (she had told her friends he was her boyfriend) not only broke it off with her, but just completely stopped talking to her, without even officially breaking it off. Goes to show what a lot of college men are like. She’s a hopeless romantic so after 5-6 weeks and nothing happening he probably just became not interested and went back on the hunt. Hopefully thats a good start to getting rid of the G.I.G.S!