quick advice please?

After 3 weeks no contact I texted. Asked how he was and what place was one that we went and had romantic and funny moments about.

He answered my text. Said he isnt doing that well. Answered my answer normally, just saying where the place was. Then asked if I was ok and about my interview, that he remembered some time ago, but then totally forgot to ask.

I answered a few hours later cause I didn’t know what to answer. I said wow you seem really down… what’s going on? It went good, I didn’t get the job though. But I went to a few others so lets see :slight_smile: Asked about his mother as well. No answer until now but I’m not worried.

Then, I came on facebook an hour after answering and saw he posted a status saying he needs a drink and a long talk, if anyone is up for it. Thats really weird, he has tons of friends!!

I m thinking of calling him in half an hour or tomorrow to know whats happening and to tell him he can count on me whenever!

This is good but don’t make yourself too avaible to him be a friend but dont be too close to him, also dont act too needy you must be independant! But i feel you will come back together!

please read my thread https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/please-help-me-sort-this-out/#post-37722 I have an older one with 10 pages. Its all compiled in there