Was with my ex for a short amount of time 4 months, but she meant alot to me more than any other relationship ive had! Now we left each other because i couldnt stand her talking to so many guys that only want to sleep with her and taking her sweet time to answer me while being on her phone alot when im with her…
So weve been broken up for a week now havent spoken to her once since as i am in NC but she broke that by liking my relationship status update where i mention being in a relationship with the gym and myself. Now im wondering what could that mean?
I know it must of scared her because she said she broke up with me for my own good cuz she cant love me the right way and that it would be selfish of her to keep me around, we had a break before the break up of 2 weeks which i didnt respect nor she by talking to each other intialising contact… what led to the break was a discution where i told her all that bothered me and i was about to dump her, it made her nautious she almost vomited by my car window, she had a massive headache she was super silent the whole time as i was soeaking saying i was right she was crying alot because she did not want to lose me.
Hi Sam, You both sound very young and forgive me, silly. Her talking on the phone while with you is rude and disrespectful. (unless it’s a very important call) Being jealous if she’s only casually talking to guys who might have ulterior motives is controlling on your part, especially since they’re probably just her friends. Social media causes many problems between people because it sometimes causes confusion as to what things mean, and sometimes a person even jumps to the wrong conclusions! Actually it’s good when two people can discuss what bothers them in a relationship, if they do it in a kind and respectful manner to resolve issues. Try no contact again, but this time, do it for at least a month. You both need to calm down and think logically and approach this situation in a more mature way.
@patricia12 thanks for the tip! I am in no contact except she contacted me because of a photo i like saying that i was like forest gump and she like his gf who was a whore… she got mad, i explained it wasnt towards her and told her id like to talk over coffee at the end of the month and said goodbye, indid not respond to anything after and she asked me if i was back on tinder! I didnt even open the message wich she knows that i always respond to my messages.
My advice would be to stay off social media! Stay no contact and hope she meets you for coffee at the end of the month or sometime next month. The thing to do is try to have a ‘grown-up’ mature conversation together. Don’t display any jealousy. Just ask her what you two can do to make each other happier.
But what does it mean if she keeps liking my status @paricia12 ? Because today again she liked a post of mine… i remember her saying her likes never meant she liked a person but i gave her my point of view on it where i believe you have an interest in the person of whom you liked a post from
Hi Sam, How old are you? Stop trying to guess what everything on social media means! What good does that do? Focus on your real life…