Its been 30 days since I contacted my Ex… But I’ll be breaking the No Contact a week later.
She Broke with me after 5 yrs of relation & the breakup was very Bad,too much fighting,begging & pleading.
she Contacted me during No contact to wish me on my B’day but I didn’t reply to her text. The same day I went to a movie with other girl & posted this on fb. She went jealous & contacted one of our common friend to know if the other girl is with me. Here is How she actually reacted…
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/i-used-jealousy-during-no-contact-need-urgent-advice/
I’ll be sending a letter to her after a week. This is what I’m going to write.
Hey!!
First of all thanks for wishing me on my B’day. I know I’m a little late to accept your wishes & give you a reply but its the blessings that matter the most & I was gad that you texted me that day.I didn’t want to obsess myself on my b’day that’s why I didn’t reply to your text that day!! I hope you Understand.
You must be wondering why I have sent you this letter.
May be you didn’t want to hear from me & hate me these days for whatever happened between us!! Haha
But I just wanted to drop off a short note that I’m totally Ok with your decision to split up and I think its the best for both of us.
I also wanted to Sincierely apologize for all the inappropriate behaviour I did after the breakup.It was totally disrespectful to you.I apologize that I hurt you.
& Ofcourse,Some Good News! I had a fantastic change in the fortune… Something good & positive happened with me post breakup that helped me bring some positive changes in me & my lifestyle… Funny timing…right? I would love to talk about it (Only if you wish to hear…haha) But not now…as we both need some space & time right now.
and One last thing, I remember that you have your MBA exams approaching next week. I know things must be really stressed these days but I’m sure you’ll do great.
Good luck for the exams.
I need advice if I should write any specifics when asking for apology. Or any other sugesstions to include or exclude anything.
but I think better it would be better if you didn’t write this part ‘‘I didn’t want to obsess myself on my b’day that’s why I didn’t reply to your text that day!! I hope you Understand…’’ You want her to feel that you are strong and confident and that part shows that she still can change your mood etc and thats not a good thing.