Opinions?

So I’ve asked her to meet up, and the exchange went as follows.

“Hey, what days are you off next week? Want to see what you think of meeting up and getting some lunch or dinner? Just to hang out and catch up a bit.”

“Well I can’t next week my days off are to celebrate my bday but I’ll let you know what my schedule looks like the following week”

Think I’m being passively blown off here, or does she really want to and really doesn’t have the time? Personally, I’m just going to wait and see what happens.

You’re overthinking! It seems all is going well so far, but don’t overwhelm her with texts. You’ve already sent a few texts plus the rose on Sweetest Day. Send a nice birthday card, but not a mushy one. If you send it to her place via mail, it would be better than a text. Or call to say happy birthday and make it a very short conversation, but don’t ask about meeting up the following week.

She said she would let you know what her schedule is, so be patient.

Good luck.

That got a really fast answer. Thank you. I agree, the way I see it, she didn’t say no. My friend was the one who put the idea in my mind about her passively blowing me off is why I asked. Patience is the name of the game here.