Hi All,
Slightly complicated but I’m sure a familiar scenario. She broke up with me saying she wasnt attracted to me any more and wasnt in love over the phone. She already asked for a break (called it off two days later) two weeks before.
After two weeks of NC I texted her saying it’s worth fighting for and please meet me in person etc etc. and she replied saying she needs to be single for a while essentially but still wants to be friends and will meet in the future.
So I started working on myself and seeing others and being the best I can - I truly feel that I can get over her and that the root of the issue was that I was insecure and complacent and also that the relationship dynamic changed once I started my job. 2 weeks after she asked to meet up and I said I was busy for the next two weeks (true) and at the end of the two weeks I said lets meet up. That’s when I found this website and realised I hadnt quite done this correctly, and now I’m supposed to meet her in a week, which I am prepared for, but I dont know if the no contact was truly felt.
Should I call off the meeting and NC her for longer? Or should I just role with it and turn up to the meeting as my new self?
Any help would be really helpful