Already started my contact period.
I and mid 40’s and my Ex is early 40’s. we were together for over five years before My Ex-Girlfriend broke Up with me about four months ago however, we kept seeing each other occasionally for few months. The main reason for breaking up, last year I was heavily involved in messy divorced and ignored my ex attentions and to some degree took my eyes from affection. I assume she lost attraction towards me and decided to break. last six moths were tough on me and I did all the wrong things initially but sobered up in last few weeks and stop pushing her and showing my affection and acting needy.
for last two weeks or so, almost all the time she initiated the text messaged and I just replied and even in last week before no contact she herself informed me what her plans are for the entire week and for once asked to do face time.
Few days back I decided to start No Contact and communicated to my ex amicably. She understood my needs to be alone and concentrate on myself and sent two texts before she started respecting no contact. Two text are as follow
Her: So happy to see you say all that-exactly what i wanted to do myself))
Her: Ok babe, i am here when you want to talk xx
Now I am slightly confused with the second text and the use of word “babe” thought she called me with this name many times in last one month or so.
no contact from her since I started No contact.
Any clarity on above is much appreciated.