So my ex and I broke up a week ago after almost 3 years. She went from “I want space” and wanting to revisit in a month and was excited to hit the reset button and was super positive then 2 days later said “I’ve had time to think” and after talking to her best friend and they agreed she will be happier in the long run. The day after I poured my heart out to her and she became callous and cold and said “This is the decision I made. I want both of us to be happier” Fast forward 2 days later, she texted me a favor to forward her specific emails if I receive any. I ignored it obviously but should I take this as her just trying to get to the point for favor like is strictly business? Or should I think of this as her trying to find a reason to talk to me. Either way I am ignoring it
She seems adamant about the breakup. You didn’t explain the email thing, but best to ignore unless the emails are EXTREMELY important.
I think you need to leave her be for a no contact period. give her the month she originally wanted. people flip flop in their feelings right after a break up so even she may not be certain of her true feelings. Give it time. and only forward an email during the month if it is important- like life or death/ financial, etc.