I broke up with my ex about a month ago. We were in LDR. I found out about this website just recently and have made the deadly mistakes this past month. She had been doing the push and pull to me, and the last time she texted me was yesterday. She said that I’m toxic for her, that she is annoyed by me, that she wanted to go on a therapy (she has some mental health issues) and heal herself and my presence won’t make her any better. I’m on my day 1 of NC now.
I’m not sure whether I should text her again after only 30 days? Because I truly want her to heal, and I’m not sure whether I will bother her process of healing or not. Moreover, I have no idea when will she start this therapy.
Any advices?