Nearly Finish No contact rule but so confused

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Hi Kevin,
I am Han 25 and my ex bf is 24, we dated for nearly 9 months and he have broke up with me 3 times, first one is 30p, second one is one weeks and this time is official and it last for 21 days. We have no contact until now. Every time I apologized and he forgave it. This time I so upset and agreed with him after arguing a lot. I have applied NC rule for 21 days and his birthday is the 28rd day. Should I end it early and come to give him my gift.

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I think you should stay in no contact and continue to work on yourself.

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Continue no contact. Bdays will come and go

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I agree with the above, continue no contact. If you’ve apologized every time you’ve broken up and now you’ll go out of your way to give him a birthday present, he’ll just see you as an option that he can go back to whenever he wants.