my soon to be ex husband says he wants to be friends.

this isnt working for me at all the no contact what can i do im gonna lose him forever

Is he 100% sure about this? Ask him him… He seems to be serious, you should be cautious what you say… I got no idea what else there is to say… :frowning:

i feel like im gonna get violent with me and feel my aggression building up

im gonna take the papers out of his car and make him get new ones to fill out

NO. Stay calm, talk with him instead, talk reasonable with him… What about your kids? Won’t they be heartbroken if you guys divorced?

he is idk what to do i cant loose him

no no no no no do not take the papers… stay calm

he wanted to talk but i told him i was busy, he said fine he’ll turn them in without me, i wanna cry cant face him right now,

im so scared i wanna give him the money order back too i think i am

I think you should really calm down, and talk with him instead… He might just be messing with you? I don’t really know… Guys can be really manipulative and try to stress you to se a reaction…

they r and he doesnt care cause he gets half custody should i talk to him and tell him how i feel or continue no contact

no hes dead on serious, im scared to hear what hes gonna say i love him so much

Cassie what are you thoughts on this?? For now just stay calm… Don’t do anything, please… Just stay calm, you have time.

im returning the money order to him and gonna tell him to give me the cash or that im gonna break the money order he always gives me 100.00 and today made it for 180.00

he wanted to talk to me hes still here for now im scared

I think that for right now you need to take a deep breath and talk to him.

If you’ve taken the papers, put them back!

Ask him if he can come by tomorrow and you can talk about it.

Buys you some time and we can talk about what you should do.

should i give him the money order back i want to so bad i hate money orders

i bet his appt yesterday had to do with the divorce i felt it, i hate this my chest hurts and I feel so sick