Hi Kevin,
This is Dave.
I wanna tell you the real story of my breakup.
It was all my fault.
We were in serious relationship of nearly one and half years.There were many ups and downs, many breakups and then we always come back again happily together.
This happened in January.We were mature enough to be intimate.I am a guy and you know that a guy needs sex too in his life rather than a girl is sensitive.
I told my ex that i want sex but she said not now but after sometime she said yes,it will be on our 2nd anniversary.
Suddenly she cancelled that plan, i was completely disappointed at that time and asked her for breakup.
She left.
She came back.
I ignored.
But its past 3 months of breakup and i am feeling like i am dying for her.
She’s in relationship with her friend.
I did text her about my feelings that are reciprocated and i don’t want anything from her except her love and affection.I don’t know why but i need her warmth and love at this point of life.
But she has changed completely bragging about how she has changed so much because of me.
I cried, i begged but she didn’t even shed a tear.
If it was before when i cried she would have died because of that thinking how despetate i am.
But now when i have realised that how she felt when i broked up and ask her to come back.
Her answer is just Sorry, i can’t
I am happy with John.
I love him.
Kevin,brother
Please tell me
Can love happen twice?
Can true love end?
She asked me to move on but i can’t
I tried to but no other girl have a comfort zone more than her.
I really am craving for her like chain smoker craving for a cigarette.
Please help regarding this issue,
I am really very disappointed about me that i did broked up with her because of sex but now i want her back at all cost.
Thank you.
Hey dude saw your post and thought I could help you.
First and foremost, even my ex has never met a guy with a high sex drive like I do compared to most men but you never and I mean NEVER tell a girl you need more sex even if you want it like crazy, trust me I know.
So here is the deal.
Woman seek emotional security and emotional connection, so if she feels you just view her as a sexual entity and nothing more that is all she she’s, so this is what I would say to place the thought in her mind and do nothing more.
“Hey beautiful,
I know I made sex seem like it was important but nothing could or would be as the emotional connection with you because in the end that was and always will be the most important thing to me. I understand you have moved on and I accept that you have but I just want you to know you have changed my life in such a great way and you will always be that special person that has given me so much and I have come to realize how valuable I am and will be to others, thank you for all you have shown and given me”
That’s it
Your basically telling her that she made you a better man for the next girl and are looking for a deep emotional connection which will make her think she made a mistake and your moving on.