Hi Kevin,
My bf of a year and 3 months broke up with me 3 months ago out of the blue, right after the festive season. We had such a great holiday and he sent me a message on the Monday saying that he loves me so much and that he is so grateful to have me. On Friday that week he ended the relationship stating that he wanted to have his old life back and missed being able to come and go as he pleases. He also said that he feels that we are different people and that our personalities clash.
I was devastated and tried to understand what had happened and where everything had gone wrong. I did message and email him for the first 2 months. I am now applying the no contact rule…I have not messaged him for a week. I know he is seeing someone else that he met 2 weeks after our break up. She is the complete opposite of me, I have no spoken to him about her at all. I am trying to not make any contact with him.
I am so very confused about what happened and in the beginning was constantly looking for answers.
How long should I not speak to him for?
Thanks for you help.
