It’s day 16 of my break up and I just feel like he is never going to want me back. I haven’t texted him at all or begged him since the break up though. I’m just afraid that when the time is right and I go to text him he will just ignore it or maybe even tell me he doesn’t want to be with me. I have posted 2 other threads with other problems too. I just need some friendly help and advice.
Hey… I’m on the same boat as you. I feel that every day he’s just slipping more and more away. I’m only on day 7 of NC and this has been the hardest week of my life. But we have to stay strong. My mom keeps telling me… If it’s meant to be its meant to be… sometimes people just need time to realize what it is they have lost. Use this time wisely… Go to the gym. It’s the only thing keeping me sane… You’ll feel great afterwards. Go out with your family. We need to worry about ourselves… They’re not worrying for us… They’re fine. We need to show that we’re fine too.
I feel the same. I broke the NC rule earlier because I went insane to hurt him, to cause him pains & sufferings so that he understands how much it hurts. I am on my fourth day today of NC rule. I feel the same that he won’t want me. I am insecure because he seems too happy without me.