So i did no contact from jan1 til now…sexond time around.
.today my ex msg me in fb. Telling me
“ I KNOW YOU ARE MAD AT ME.I WANT TO SAY SORRY AND I MISS YOU.HOPE YOU ARE FINE.TAKE CARE.”
so i think this is a good start…what do you think guys? Should i reply her? Im planning to send a letter maybe end of march thats the end of my target NC. But what shoukd i do now??
That is a good start. Keep up the NC. If they are missing you thats a good thing. Maybe they will message you again and go from there. Don’t do the letter just in case you start talking again and it back fires you can do the NC again and hit them with the letter after.
So ok…il try to ignore d msg…and send the letter til my NC ends.
.and by the we broken up oct2014.i did the NC whole month of nov.contact her month of dec but its a mess and i think im not yet ready that time so i dexide to do it again starting jan1…
So ok…il try to ignore d msg…and send the letter til my NC ends.
.and by the way we broken up oct2014.i did the NC whole month of nov.contact her month of dec but its a mess and i think im not yet ready that time so i decided to do it again starting jan1…
Can I ask a question please?
Why are you sticking strictly to a target time? I can understand that you want time to heal yourself and so on, but love isn’t set in certain exact lengths of time.
If you are not ready to reply then definitely do not, but when you feel ready why stick to a target date?
I don’t say this to tell you to change your plans. Just something to think about. If and when you feel ready then go for it and forget the time limit I think. If you want them back of course.
Coz im still sticking on the NC plan…i never send the letter yet.and by the end of my target time i am succesful enough with my career to face her…i can be more confident…i am emotionally ready but i stil have nothing to be proud of…