its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice

reconciliation
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We have been together for 2 years she left me because she didn’t feel he same for me and while she lost feelings for me she met this guy and started liking him so she thought she she can’t like this guy if she loves me and then thought that she clearly must not love me if she likes this guy so she left me and went off with this guy

Basically I started NC and in the 3rd she popped up to me on WhatsApp and I read her message and didn’t say anything. She then popped up today on the 5th day and she said “why ignore me” with a lot of those whatever faces on WhatsApp it looks like

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do not reach out

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So ignore again ? :frowning:

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My ex broke it off after 4 year relationship. He emailed me after 9 days of nc I am not sure what to do as I don’t want to push him away and before I initiated nc we were heading to friends status but he said something unkind and was sending iced messages so I started nc. Help I am confused

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If she keeps messaging you, you can simply say that you need some time and space.

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So should I ignore her now and say that the next time she messages me?

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Just do it now.

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Okidokes so just say that I need some time and to just leave me alone for a while ?

Btw what’s up with Kik

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Okay so I said to her

‘Hey sorry just been super busy :(’
‘I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you can understand’
‘Hope all is well anyway’

what do you guys think ?

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What was the reason for the relationship breaking up?

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kik caused my phone to shut down repeatedly. So I uninstalled it.

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LA I will try find another messaging service lol add me on WeChat :slight_smile: My name is ‘Arjun Kataria’

So this is how the conversation went:

(H) is her and (M) is me

(H) 5th January @ 23.07 - Hey :smiley:

(M) 7th January @ 22.18 - Oiiii -- -- --
(M) 7th January @ 22.19 - Why ignore me --

(M) 8th January @ 15.10 - Hey sorry just been super busy :frowning:
(M) 8th January @ 15.11 - I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you understand
(M) 8th January @ 15.11 - Hope all is well anyway
(H) 8th January @ 15.36 - It’s okay yeah don’t worry
(H) 8th January @ 20.37 - Got a lot of stress at the moment tbh a lot of stuff I’m trying to do
(M) 8th January @ 20.44 - oh okay good luck lol
(H) 8th January @ 20.47 - Well that’s nice -- --

wadya think :frowning: was I too harsh :frowning: too blunt :frowning: I feel bad :frowning: I want to make her relieved of her stress :frowning:

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hey, found it!
Well the way you wrote the last was a bit hars, you could have written “sorry to hear, it will ba allright im sure=) take care”
But it is what it is, so keep on the NC.

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shall i say it now instead :frowning: don’t want her upset with me :frowning:

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was this today? then maybe, “sorry for being like that, sorry to hear about your situation, im sure it will all be allright, take care”

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yeah but she’s already heard my harsh comment so its like taking it back if i say something else :frowning: like she will think ‘he’s just said something else because i got offended’ I got some advice to just send a smiley face to her last reply lol wadya think ?

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okay so I said

‘Im sure it’ll be alright :P’
‘anyway I’m out’
‘take care :*’

and she replied saying ‘fine’

do I still stand a chance :frowning: I feel like I just ruined it for myself :frowning:

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HELP :frowning:

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sorry i didnt see theese…
Try the NC now

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So 30 days from now right?

And NC from now because I’ve made my intentions clear or is it because of something else?