I was talking to this girl for a while and she liked me and then changed her mind about me. I started NC and cheated after 2 weeks. I only talked to her once then went back to NC for a week but lately I haven’t seen her tweet or on any social media I’m kinda worried and hate not hear from her and I miss her. At this point I really don’t care I don’t want to lose her in my life I at least want to be friends. should I text her that I miss her?
hey Paul, i suggest you continue with NC and don’t text her about you missing her. it’d just make her less attracted to you with such availability and interest. i know it’s hard, but give her and yourself the space to think and clarify your emotions. then when you can think clearer, address the ‘being friends’ question. take care.
No, don’t contact her at all and continue the no contact. by looking at her social media your only hurting yourself. take it one day at a time. Good luck AndyK gave you great advise.