Background
(I posted it on my second round NC post)
My ex is 27 and I am 25. We had a serious 8 year relationship. On Nov 29 last year we loss our baby girl during birth. We had a hard time accepting her death. On top of it he lost his job and we had financial difficulties. His mind stopped thinking I guess and he decided being single was much better. He ran from our problems. On March 1 on my birthday he decided to break everything off. It has been hard but thank God I can say Im happy by myself. I love the life I have now.
On April we started talking after Not contacting eachother for a month. We met in a hotel. We kept in contact. He was still not into getting back. Again we spent the night together. I decided after it that I would do NC again. So I did and 42 days after he reached out just to seek for friendship. I again was hurt so I told him I will seek for happiness with someone else and please don’t search for me again. I blocked him for a month. During that time he had his friends call me but i never picked up. So thursday I was fed up by his friends. I unblocked my ex and asked him to tell his friends to stop calling. My ex answered asking how I was? And all that. He insisted on my reply because I ignored him. I said I was fine. My mom told me to stop ignoring and stay friends because we shared the same loss.
Here is my situation. My ex has been initiating contact daily. He is texting about past moments and how happy we were. That Im a beautiful good woman. The other night I told him our conversations are weird and he said why? I said because the past is the past. He said ok, but is still reminding me of our happiness and places we enjoyed together. Today I was doing laundry and he started reminding me of our past.
I believe in second chances but I don’t want to make the same mistakes. I didn’t say it over here on this post but his family did me wrong in our break up. His mother I don’t want to think about and his brother disrespected me. When I think about his family my mind starts going crazy. I don’t want anything to do with them. How can I forgive and forget?
It has been 5 months and I forgave my ex but not his family. Anyways should I just move on or give him another chance? Because Im sure he wants another chance.