Hi, just call me Rich. I need your help. My problem is my ex girlfriend doesn’t love me anymore. She said she don’t want me to love her anymore. She even blocked me on facebook. She don’t allow me to communicate through text messages and calls. She don’t want to see and talk to me anymore. We are in a long distance relationship. I am the root of our problem. I did not communicate to her oftenly, but talk her coldly. She even warn me always and cry for my attention but I did not listen to her. I even give her broken promises of seeing her. But when she broke up with me, I didn’t realized yet that she is serious so I don’t listen to her and stopped talking to her. But one day I realized that my love is no longer mine. I wnt her back and make it up to her. I want to do everything just to get her nack and love me again. But my big mistake was doing the reconciling process desperately and even push her away from me. I don’t know what to do because the only way to communicate her now is through text but she does not reply. I dont know where she is or the location of her house and work. I hope you’ll help me to reconcile with her and get her back to me. I dont know what to do.
You treated her badly and broke promises, so she is upset. Do no contact for 30 days to give her a chance to calm down. This sounds like it was a short time relationship and maybe you never saw her in person.
A long distance relationship is very difficult to maintain, therefore dating someone closer to you would work out better.