Hi Keven,
I was in a relationship with my ex who has alcohol problems for 2 years. During this time he hes had three therapies. He didn’t drink for the past 2 months since the last therapie.
I have always felt that he loved me , this is what kept me strong and determined to hold on to him ,(because of the love and compassion we’ve had)
The problem was that after the third Therapy I didn’t quite believe in the fact that he will not drink again even though he was so loving and caring towards me. I have failed to being able to enjoy and to rebuild our future.
He wanted to marry me but I insisted that first I must be sure he will not drink again,I had also asked him to get his own accommodation until I was sure.
We have still lived together during the time until three weeks ago when he started to drink again.
He became distant and also started to chat with another women online . I couldn’t handle the situation with alcohol any longer.
We started to argue and told him a few times to go to his place even though I didn’t want him to, when one day after 10 days of drinking and arguing he left.
I asked him a couple of times if he wants it over but he didn’t give a direkt reply.
I have started the no contact two days ago but he masseged me a few times, i didn’t reply but Then this evening he told me he has to go to Hospital tomorrow. I called to let him Know that i would bring the few things he May be needing tomorrow and leave them at the door by his place .
I have also Shared the way im feeling and said that I need some time for myself and didn’t wish to see him because I feel hurt and angry with what has happened.
He asked me where I have been in the past couple of days and was calm and agreed .
Have I done or said the right thing ?
Do I have to start with the no contact once again from day one ?
I am hoping we will get back together, Is there a good chance ?
Thanks