Soon Thursday i got back with my Ex. i foudn out she had seen someone else. She told me about getting back together. She seemed happy about it. We talked about doing things right and we were excited about it. Yesterday we hubg out all day but she seemed kinda off. I thot it was the whole breakup and being overwhelmed so i was giving her time and let her get into again. This morning she texted she was going to pick me up. She did and said “i know you see me off about things” i said yeah. She explained and said how she couldn’t let herself get back and live sith how i cheated. She feels like I’m being serious and honest about making things good but she doubts she can overcome things. It hurt me. I told her look my actions will speak for themselves and time will bring your guard down. She strongly believes it wont and she wont overcome it. I tokd her no matter what i say or do will change your mind so I have to respect that. I was going to get off her car she asked for a hug. I tokd her i didn’t want to be an jerk so i gave it to her. I didnt cry or begged i was firm n straight out about the decision. I walked away n didn’t seem needy.
What do I do next??? Im hurt and want her back. Is she confused or what??
I’m sorry dude, I had high hopes. I thought u had nailed it. All I can say is start no contact again I know it’s not what u want to hear but I think it might be best
I know man. I think she’s confused about the other guy and me. I had claimed victory too early. Its killing me right now. Once again im in the same hole. I really see no hope now. I think she’s going back to him. Idk but i feel it.
damn, hate to hear it. I think you did good to not cry and by acting cool. How are you feeling now?
Do you feel better than the first break up or worse?
I feel a little better than the first break up. I kept together but i cried on my own not in front of her anymore. It started killing me now i feel that sting in my heart and my head is not concentrating anymore. It really sucks :(… idk wat to do anymore
