Hi,
My ex and I were together for five years and she left me two months ago. We never had any fights, and for the most part we had a good relationship.
Before our breakup she went on vacation on her own. During that vacation we had a fight over a guy she was hanging out with there, he was from a diffrent country. After that fight our contact wasn’t fun anymore and she just stopped contacting me. When she got home she admitted she was attracted to that guy and had kissed him. She told me our relationship didn’t work anymore and stuff like that and dumped me. I was very emotional at this moment and we both couldn’t stop crying.
After a month I asked if she wanted to get a drink together because I graduated and she was my support trough the years. She told me she didn’t want to be friends and seeing me wouldn’t work for her.
After a week I texted her again. My brothers saw her on all the dating apps like tinder (she is not on them anymore), and I mean all of them. So I asked her if I was just a toy to her. She assured me I was not and she had I though too and didn’t contact me because she thought it was better for both of us.
Two weeks ago I got drunk and called her, she didn’t pick up. The next day I apologised and told her I was curious how she was doing at that moment. No response. So then I texted her that she was right, it’s over and I shouldn’t ask stuff like that and I apologised for my behaviour. Again no response.
I seemed very needy and made a lot of mistakes. And I don’t know what I should text her next, or when, or if I should. Any ideas? Sorry for the long story.