So, I broke up with him more than a month ago, we lived together almost 2 years.
I am 8 months pregnant with his baby. He was a kind, loving man, but my pregnancy got me so jealous and needy, we fought a lot the last 2 months. He didn’t want to leave, but I have to admit, I was so cruel and heartless to him, literally I kicked him out even if ue begged don’t. I thought he cheating on me. So, couple of days after a break up, I realized the loss, and tried to reach him out to beg, and he seemed okay with talking to me. He said he will alwqys love me, and I can’t do anything to make him fall out of love with me.But after a week or two, I was irritating him, and said some really mean stuff about his family… and now he completely shut me out. Never responds to my texts and calls, and yesterday he called me to say stay away from him, don’t call or text him, he don’t want to see me now, because he didn’t love me anymore, and we will never be together anymore, he just wants to see the baby when she is arrived. I asked him if he is sure about that and he said 100%. He also said he will come… but I don’t know if he means to come to me or just come to the baby. I know I have to leave him alone, because I screwed up, but I love him. What to do now?
Being needy, jealous, and cruel to him and his family killed his love for you. Stop contacting him, as it’s irritating him even more.
“He also said he will come… but I don’t know if he means to come to me or just come to the baby”. It means he wants to see the baby. The best case scenario is if you two can reconcile and raise the baby together. But if he doesn’t want to reunite, the next best thing is if he can co-parent (amicably) as in a regular visiting schedule and child support.
If you call him on the delivery day, he might want to see his daughter being born.
Good luck.
Yeah… he called me on 5th and 6th day of NC. The first call was cool, kinda like before, the second was cold. Maybe if I work on myself we can work things out. Thank you.
I hope so! Especially for the sake of the baby. Good luck…