Here's my letter! What do u think?

reconciliation
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I’ve done a rough copy of my letter. I’m not ready to send it but I would like to know what all of you think.

Hi Hann,
Since our split ive had a lot of time to think…about our relationship, you and more importantly myself.
I want to apologise for everything I put you through. I’m ashamed IT came to this. Hopefully some day you might forgive me.
I know we had our bad times but I also know we had some amazing times. Willy moon, stone roses africa oye ed sheeran gigs. I still remember you sending me ed’s music for the first time.
One day that sticks out is when we escaped to port meirion, makes me smile when I think of that day. The glow that you had. Good time
Like I said I’ve had a lot of time to think, I’ve been using it to improve myself mentally and physically. You’ll laugh but I’ve even started a food diary and eating plenty of fruit. I’ve been keeping myself busy by running and also going Evo camp 3/4 times a week. I wish I had done it sooner.
I’m sorry for how we ended it Hann, I’ll have to carry that regret with me forever. One plus is that it has given me the kick up the ass in needed, even if it is too late.

I hope some day we can share laughs again…

All my love

Rusty x

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Here’s my story

https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/confused-19/

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That’s a really good letter man! It shows your really are willing to change and you care a lot for her! I wish you the best of luck

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I agree, that is a good letter. It doesn’t sound needy or desperate…it sounds just right. I’m no expert but that is my opinion anyway. Feel free to post on my thread if you ever need company

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Cheers! This site has really helped me open up and start to feel like myself again. Glad I found it. I’m going to wait a few weeks before sending it, maybe change it. Thanks for your opinion ppl. It helps to open up

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Good letter its to the point and doesnt sound needy. Good luck

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Cheers, think I’ll send it in a few weeks. I’m starting to worry about no contact thing will she think I’ve forgot about her? And will she forget about me?

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Excellent letter, gf just broke up with me on Feb 21st. I hope one day i can write her a letter like this. Touched me alot.

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I feel for u mate. All I can is time helps but it still hurts me to this day. Try and keep busy. What’s your story? If u need to unload I’m here

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Good job rusty… this is a perfect letter… send it When u feel u are ready for this. :slight_smile:

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Do u think ye, I’ve been honest with my feelings. I’m missing her so much day 6 of no contact and I haven’t heard from her yet. Not sure if this is a good thing or bad

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@RustyRed Here’s my story man. Thanks for any help you can give.

https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/completely-need-help-any-advice-will-do/

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It is really good!

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I absolutely love it! I wish that I had added some of the good times Alex and I had in my letter to him, I know that we are both going through a rough time and if you ever need to just give me a shout and I’ll answer as soon as possible! Your letter seems perfect to me. I wish mine was just as good as yours. Now I just get to play the waiting game…