Kevin writes that it can take anywhere from 2 weeks to 2/3 months until all bad memories are healed and your ex is going to miss you badly. During this time you have to maintain no contact. If you have contact during this period, especially with some pleading or neediness is this period going to be extended ?
And isn’t it a good idea if there were bad things happening during the relationship but there is a lot of ambiguity, to just sit down with your ex and clear things up ?
In 2 days I am meeting my ex after 2x2 weeks no contact. Bad memories of our relationship are not too bad, I think average, no cheating, just health problems which lead to diminished attraction. That’s all handled now. Should I extend the no contact to let time heal the bad things or should I clarify some of them to her ?