dont react to the picture. dont break NC. just ignore. responding to this will make you look so defensive. You don’t want him to drop all contact? but you may worsen the situation by replying. a witty comment will get you nowhere. just hold on to the NC. You started it. you should end it.
Is “no contact” of 30 days really imperative? I was thinking of contacting him after 1 week. Honestly, I am feeling much better compared to last week. And somehow I have been able to detach myself from the outcome. I feel positive and I have been able to think objectively. I am thinking of going ahead with “false friendship” after NC.
It’s you choice. I mean do you really think that the wounds have already closed up? the relationship is in tatters now and if it was repaired why aren’t you back together? It’s okay for false friendship but we must avoid that always considering the consequences of staying there permanently.
Thanks Nightdeleon. I appreciate your honest replies.
I have my doubts about NC but I will think about it.
Don’t worry we all have problems. “No one deserves a heavy burden like this”. Yes think about it again and again. I was thinking about texting my ex but meh whatever she doesnt care so much as she did before.