So first off, don’t do what I did, even if it turned out ok for me
I’ve been doing great with not contacting my ex girlfriend but I was thinking about her constantly and depressed because she clearly wasn’t thinking of me. So I did what I knew full well was probably a mistake and stalked her social media. However she doesn’t use it much and the only social media we’re actually connected on is Instagram which neither of us uses at all. But I can stalk her best friends Facebook page because most of what she posts is public and my ex will frequently like or comment on things or get tagged in photos whatever. Well this time the friend was clearly bored or something because she posted a lot. But out of all of that the only thing she responded to was a “like” to “trying my hardest not to text him.”
I have no idea who the friend was trying not to text but I know exactly why my ex liked it and it made me realize she does miss me and I’ve done much better since.