So, I followed advice something similar to the no contact rule and eventually got my man back. We were together 6 months. Toward the end he texted less and less, plus we were in a long distance relationship.
So now we’re back and I feel like he’s losing interest again. He says he’ll call but doesn’t or he says he’ll visit but cancels and doesn’t let me know first. I feel like he took me back for occasional sex, he mentions wanting kids but rarely marriage.
We never work on our relationship. How do I approach him with out scaring him away. What should I do?
I almost got my ex but I think he’s still mad over what I called him (to make him smile…) i don’t know what to do now…He was so crazy for me and now he’s playing games…
And also I think you really do need to work on your relationship… if he’s not willing to do that then it might just end up going wrong the same way it did before…
Do you think he’s really committed to the relationship?
He just sent me a text saying I think it’s best we end the relationship. That was it! It was weird and out if the blue. He wouldn’t respond at all. So I tried not to send the desperate texts, but I told him I just thought he was making a big mistake over some sort of misunderstanding and that we should just talk.
I sent one maybe once every week, then waited. After a few texts he responded a few weeks later and we started talking a little bit. Then he said we should do some things together. Then we agreed to work things out.
We never talk though. I have a msg app aged you can see when someone reads your text. So I feel like he’s ignoring me because I know he sees my msgs.
He keeps reneging on our phone calls and meet ups. And I feel like I’m the last option.
Plus he said he doesn’t always feel like being in a relationship and his work makes it difficult for him. I call BS on that one.
I feel like just letting it go may of the time, but it’s hard ash I feel like maybe he’s going through something. Idk
