“I wanted to thank you for all what you did for me. It means a lot. I can’t believe in the fact that we act like strangers now… we had something that was so special and different from all couples. I wish you all the best in everything that you’ll undertake throughout your life. And i sincerely miss you a lot, maybe i need you by my side as a friend to feel stronger. But anyway if you’re happy the way we are now I’m happy too. I won’t be too long… Always be the amazing human that you are and never ever look at your past to be honest if i could change our past I’ll definitely do it… that’s my most wanted wish. I miss you my friend more than you think.”
He definitely misses you but I think you should still wait out the full no contact period. If his feelings change in just another 9 days it wasn’t real to begin with
I don’t know why she refers to you as a friend?
“…if i could change our past I’ll definitely do it…”
To me it sounds like she wants to reconcile. Maybe try to talk about past issues and things that should be done to make a better relationship if you’re willing…
How long were you a couple and who broke up with who?
You don’t give any detail as to why she left you. But from what she wrote, it sounds as if you’re the one who broke up with her. What do you hope to accomplish by no contact?
I took her for granted and I had depression issues. I’ve gone to psy and therapy already and I’m pretty much okay completely now. NC so I can let go and also will try to reconcile after I’m emotionally ready to contact her
