Lol true
Any progress LAbound? I’m very skeptical about dream telepathy, but I find it very interesting… and I’ve had experiences with my ex where we had very similar dreams int he same night, where we were at the same location, same event happened, and nothing triggered the dream. Like, you know how if you watch a show or are thinking about something, you can dream about that or something similar… we never did, it was just random. And little things, like randomly both singing a song we haven’t heard in years, and there was no reason for it…
SO, who knows, maybe it is possible?
Something funny: For the first three months after the break up, whenever I dreamt about my ex, we were always broken up and I was trying to get him back in some way. Or we were seeing each other, but I knew we weren’t in a relationship.
Well, like I said in my recent thread (https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/hopeless/), about a week ago I decided to move on because of things that have happened recently. I really, truly, believed he would never want me again (and i’m still thinking that is probably the case), and grieved and cried like he had died. I told myself it was time, and that I had to make an effort to let go, and to rebuild a new life for myself. Maybe it’s not going to be perfect, and I doubt I’ll ever love the same way, if at all, but there’s nothing I can do about that. Anywho… since I made that decision, i’ve been dreaming about him lots again, but now, we are together in my dreams! It’s hilarious. And it’s not like we reconcile in the dreams… we’re just together.
I just find it odd that when I had hope and had a plan to get him back, I was never with him in my dreams… and the moment I decide to let go, now he’s there, with me. It’s probably my mind just trying to stop me from moving on, which is annoying!
I think it might be a sign that because you chose to let go and start loving yourself essentially. … it has left a possibility open to get your ex back.
I firmly believe we have to get over the ex to improve our lives and be happy. And that energy we develop by becoming happier, wiser and more complete on our own terms attracts others. Including an ex.
Law of Attraction is better than dream telepathy. 1. It’s more spiritual. 2. Its easier. Lol 3. Its more about you than your ex.
Dream telepathy can help us influence our exes but whats the point when we cant influence ourselves to improve or havent reached a higher level of personal enlightenment. If we pursuade our exes…they will come back but they wont stay. Nothing will be new. Nothing will say that life can be happier and more fulfilling.
Some exes will need to change too. Some of us will be able to change our exes by changing our ways. Other exes are far off from being mature and capable of change…so even if we improve, things will not go the route we thought pissible. In the end though, we will find someone more suitable for us and the shock and heartache will disappear.
Rambling now…lol im done
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Ooh, I also love this kind of stuff! I made myself lucid dream a couple times through training, but I must say I’m quite sceptical about dream telepathy. Have you had any luck? Logically, I don’t think it could work from a distance anyway…
I’ll read up on it tomorrow, I’m science-brained. 
Hey Unimare!
Yeah, I discovered lucid dreaming in the 8th grade. I had a crush on a girl and wanted to dream about her. lol I sound like a creep, but I was almost in love with her. It was by pure accident. I realized I could rewind, fast forward, change things… I was awake but not awake. I even started studying for tests in my sleep.
I’ll work on the dream telepathy.
I’ve experienced some strange things while meditating before. One time in particular I remember laying on the ground trying to meditate and something blew in my ear, almost like a dog sniffing around your ear. Strange thing was I was alone. I’ve also had out of body experiences growing up, almost like I was in another person’s body if I was talking to them and looking at myself. I’ get bouts of deja vu as well and it’s almost like I have a choice with that: if I act on what I’ve seen, whatever will happen… if I don’t, it doesn’t. I dodged many fights with my now ex thanks to this.
I’m not sure I’ve mastered something like astral projection or dream telepathy, but I gave it a shot the past few nights. I listen to bineural beats while in bed and have aimed to reach out to my ex in a calm, understanding, pleasant manner. I forgive her for any bad things, tell her I understand what happened, and that it’s okay, I’m moving on. Before I started doing this, it seemed like my ex was apathetic to me and did not really have any focus on me at all. Well, the morning after I attempted dream telepathy, there were a bunch of sad/regretful songs that she was listening to. A few more nights of it and it switched to her being angry.I’ve not done a thing to her or tried to contact her during NC (other than the dream telepathy), and am on day 13. But it makes me wonder if it’s working or just coincidence timing wise.
I do know if I’ve fallen asleep after attempting dream telepathy, I normally end up dreaming about her. I cannot recall the dreams specifically, but the feelings are those of her being angry with me for the breakup, but I wasn’t even the dumper lol.
I also don’t know how much I buy into zodiacs and all that, but we are both water signs. Supposedly water signs are “psychic” but I take it with a grain of salt. I do know I am very intuitive and seem to have a built in lie detector. I also pick up on other’s emotions very easily, even if they’re trying to hide them. Talks like these always fascinate me.
@LAbound @ThePheonix
Just wondering what your opinions on this are.
Close to were I am from in Ireland is an old woman living in the grounds of a Castle. She is reknowned all over the Country for her tea leaf reading skills. I was always fairly sceptical of this but I have yet to meet a Person who hasn’t been blown away by her. She is quick and to the Point.
Anyway, being in the crisis that I was, I visited her on 1 January gone by. She said that I had a really bad year last year. Spot on. She said not to worry because this is my year. I will make up for lost years etc. She mentioned about being really settled and she sees a nice Family life with me in the future.
I then asked if I knew this Person (see my post on my Story - 5.5 years, broke up end November). She looked at me and said of course; as if I was an idiot to ask. She said that the ball was in my court. I know what to do. Just score the Goal she said.
Without saying a Name to me, she can only mean my ex. I didn’t even know about the new man at the time and wasn’t really sure what was going on because she was sending so many mixed Messages.
My question; would you pay much Attention to her and what she says? I went before to her years ago for a laugh and every single Thing came to pass. But I feel like it just gives me false hope.
Thanks
That is up to you how you interpret things @patrick d Though for me personally I would believe it. It sounds to me kind of like the LoA could play in with this as well. Keep positive, but continue your journey down your own path!
@ThePheonix Thanks for the reply. What’s LoA as a matter of interest?
Ah. Laws of attraction. How would they play here?
Well, I mean she told you some pretty good things, yes? If I had been told these things, I would definitely be happy but I’d continue on my path of my own personal journey to attract the things I like.
I’ve noticed something interesting lately. The more I’ve gotten in tune with myself, the more I’ve had periods of deja vu and LOTS of times where I feel like my body is vibrating (kind of like how you get cold chills/goosebumps). Oddly enough, I’ve gotten to the point where if I think of something that makes me happy or see something that makes me happy, I get the vibrations. I’m not sure if this ties into anything, but boy does it feel nice!
You’re not the first to talk about vibrations with me. I’ve started doing new things and I’d be buzzing after them. Almost feeling high.
I should Trust The Old dear then. I Suppose my scepticism stems a lot from my family’s story. Sometimes “predicting” things. Just on my dad’s side. So we hid it always for fear of being the Freaks.
I feel now for the first time in years/decades that something is right with the world when in fact I should be feeling the opposite.
I’m in nc right now to teach her a lesson more than anything. She started texting yesterday and it intensified today. Turning to anger and eventually and old inside joke. It’s hard to not reply but the tea woman said to Trust my gut. I don’t think I will need the full 30 days. Something says she will buckle before that. Let’s see.
But I felt today for the first time that I had the power and the control and she was feeling the pain.
Hope you follow me
Actually I take the teaching her a lesson bit back. Bit harsh. But sort of the point. Plus it helps to improve things
I follow you loud and clear. I’ve got the power, just as I have every time before when my ex decided to tuck tail and run. This time though, it’s so much more than ever before. Role reversal and all that good jazz.
My brother also has deja vu, though his usually happen in dreams and can be about things he never has experienced before, usually before his time and it ties in with the rest of my family’s experiences. For me, it’s almost like I will have an episode of deja vu and it’s kind of a foreshadowing. I have the option to go along with whatever is happening or not. I’ve seen things that just click and have the feeling of my ex coming back to me in the future. Lately it’s like they’ve come out of absolutely nowhere when I’m not even thinking about my ex and just doing my normal routine. It’s strange, but interesting.
I know there is a local psychic around here that seems to know her stuff really well. I’ve thought about going to see her, despite being somewhat skeptical but mostly out of fear that someone would harp on me for going. Perhaps I’ll venture out and see what she has to offer. At the very least, it would be a new experience for me!
I wouldn’t call what he has deja vu actually, more of sight I guess would be the right term lol. We both keep it from the rest of our family as we’re afraid to be “those people.”
I hear you. One of my sisters is frightening. Usually spot on. She says to go with your gut too. Some people don’t even understand that. I feel strongly that my ex will come back. I have a feeling when too but don’t want to say.
I almost feel her frustration today. Odd I know. I feel like it’s turned to anger again now.
Anyway. Nc is tough. Think another few days to a week but might have to give in.
Don’t know yet.
Btw. My sister told me last October when we had the first big bust up that we would get back together. But it would take a lot longer than I would hope for. Never expected to be facing February without her
I have that feeling with mine too, though it could be because I’m used to her running off and coming back every so often (her stray cat mentality again). I can also relate with what you mean feeling her frustration and the like. I think when we’re with a certain special someone long enough, we sync almost. Distance means nothing. Some days I’ll be really happy and doing well, and it’s like out of nowhere I just have this feeling of regret. But there’s nothing really for me to regret…
I recall telling my ex once that I felt we were soulmates and she agreed with me, saying she felt the same. I’m of mind though that sometimes, in whatever lifetime we may be experiencing, we miss one another somehow and paths never cross. But other times, we don’t and make up for lost time truly appreciating one another. I’m not sure at this point which is which this time, but we’ll find out in time. My intuition is rarely wrong when I go from the gut with decisions, so I don’t think this time will be any different. My gut told me not to chase this time, so I’m not going to. If it works out this go, it does. If not, there’s always next time.
I’ve given my ex around 3 months before she caves. One month down already, as she’s usually back just shy of a month in the past at the longest. Being really generous, until the beginning of summer before she comes running.
Yeah. I’m going with my gut too. Lots say move on she’s gone. But whether I just don’t want to believe that or not, I have such a strong feeling. Plus, why not have faith in the tea woman. She wasn’t wrong before.
I get that from others too. Guts for the win!