Hello,
So my relationship was short lived-3 months. I started grad school the third month in and I was having difficulties adjusting. I kinda took out my frustrations on him through text and asked for a couple days break and ended up texting him sorry after. He doesn’t like long distance relationships or calling. I moved to the city but told him I’d go back weekends.
Since the whole month I was frustrated he told me after the break we had been very rocky and it would be best to end it. At first I said I would respect it although I didn’t agree. Then two days later I tried my best to fix it and telling him I just needed to try to fix it. He still said he just didn’t see it working out. So I stopped texting. It was his bday weekend that weekend so I said happy birthday and he said thanks that it meant a lot and I have not contacted him since.
I feel like I don’t have a chance anymore which isn’t the end of the world but I really cared for him and he opened up his world (introducing me to family and friends) and I’ve just never done that with anyone and maybe I’m thinking it was because I never did that with my family. I miss him and his friends. I tried to fix it but I won’t be texting him back even after the 30 days just cause I do want to respect what he said. We left in good terms and I feel like maybe that’s worse than in bad terms because at least then there’s hate or some kind of emotion involved. Does anyone think I have hope here??