Do you keep dating during no contact a secret?

Hey,

Quick question regarding no contact and wanting to win your ex back.

Should it be kept a secret that you’re dating other girls during no contact? Or is it a good thing if the ex finds out or suspects it?

Thank you!

Hey! No contact success story here. I think it can differ from person to person, but if your ex was especially jealous like mine was, it can work really well to drop a hint that you’re seeing somebody new! I did no contact for a few weeks and started moving on and casually dating, he got very upset when he found out and immediately started trying to get back into my life. Of course I let him, but be aware of the fact that 1. If they truly want to move on, they’ll just be happy for you and consider ends closed and 2. You don’t want to hurt the person you’re seeing. Make sure that they know that it’s casual and you’re not really looking for something serious at the moment.
But jealousy worked super well for me, we’ve been back together for a while now and are actually very close again.